February 23, 2014
Texts: Matthew
5:38-48
Patsy
Cline, “Crazy” http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=na5Y9FxR0lg&feature=kp
Van
Morrison, “Crazy Love” http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8WMNUC1So4
Poco,
“Crazy Love” http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QON3cHRo5vw&feature=kp
There
is something about “crazy” and “love” which seem to go together in popular
culture from the golden country of Patsy Cline singing the Willie Nelson penned
song “Crazy,” to the unmistakable Irish rock of Van Morrison’s “Crazy Love” to
the gentle country rock of Poco’s “Crazy Love.”
But
how is this for crazy love? But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray
for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in
heaven…. If you love those who love you,
what reward do you have? Wow. Now that’s crazy love in the words of Jesus.
What
might it mean to love our enemies? If anyone strikes you on the right cheek,
turn the other also; and if anyone wants to sue you and take your coat, give
your cloak as well; and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second
mile. What kind of craziness is
this? Are we simply invited to be
doormats of love as followers of Jesus?
Actually,
the craziness of love is wisely and wildly crazy here. Jesus is not encouraging abject submission to
oppressive enemies, but inviting us to actions that offer the enemy the
possibility to change. To offer someone
the possibility to change for the better is love. New Testament scholar Walter Wink writes
about this passage, “Jesus is not telling us to submit to evil, but to refuse
to oppose it on its own terms” (The
Powers That Be, 100). The backhanded
slap is the only possibility for striking the right cheek for a right-handed
person, and the backhanded slap was an act of insult and humiliation from a
social superior to a social inferior.
Turning the other cheek requires hitting with the right fist, but this
is the way equals fought. Turning the
other cheek you remind the enemy of fundamental human dignity.
Jesus
lived in a two garment society. Imagine
what it would be like to be in court and ordered to give up one of those
garments. How humiliating and degrading. Jesus counsels to give up your other garment
too. Here is Walter Wink’s
description. By stripping, the debtor has brought shame on the creditor. Imagine the guffaws this saying must have
evoked. There stands the creditor,
covered with shame, the poor debtor’s outer garment in the one hand, his
undergarment in the other. The tables
have suddenly been turned on the creditor….
The poor man has transcended this attempt to humiliate him. (The
Powers That Be, 104)
In
Jesus’s time, Roman soldiers could conscript people to carry their gear for one
mile, but only one mile. To go further
would have been a violation of the military code. Suddenly a soldier is no longer in
charge. The conscripted person has
carried the gear for a longer period of time, and the soldier may be subject to
punishment himself. Jesus, here, in the
words of Walter Wink, is “formulating a worldly spirituality in which the
people at the bottom of society or under the thumb of imperial power learn to
recover their humanity” (108). I would
also say that the enemy is given a chance to change. That’s crazy love of the enemy.
And
if this is not enough craziness, hear again the words at the end of this
reading. “Be perfect, therefore, as your
heavenly Father is perfect.” Talk about
crazy, but there it is. Be perfect as
God is perfect. If we are not feeling
just a little uneasy, maybe we haven’t been listening intently enough. I began in the middle of this reading, love
your enemies. What might that mean in
Jesus’s time? Turn the other cheek, give
your second garment, walk the second mile.
What kind of love is this? God
kind of love. Be perfect as God is
perfect. Love like God loves.
The
word “perfect” here connotes wholeness, maturity, not some state frozen in
time, or some goal reached for ever.
Love with God’s kind of love, not a love that simply loves those who
love us, but a love that reaches out even when loving is difficult and the
world is harsh and cruel.
John
Wesley captures something of this idea of love as being perfect as God is
perfect. Wesley wrote in 1767: By perfection I mean the humble, gentle,
patient love of God and our neighbor, ruling our habits, attitudes, words, and
actions.
Be
perfect as God is perfect. Love like God
loves.
What
might this mean in our day and time when we have more than two garments, and thank
God for that this winter, when laws protect us from being struck, when soldiers
cannot simply conscript us into service?
Here are a few testimonies.
Anne
Lamott is a writer, a person of faith, and she leans to the left
politically. In one of her essays she
writes about loving the president, when the president was George W. Bush. For others, her reflections might be more
helpful now that the president is Barack Obama.
I know the world is loved by God,
as are all of its people, but it is much easier to believe that God hates or
disapproves of or punishes the same people I do, because these thoughts are
what is going on inside me much of the time.
(Plan B, 220-221)… I’ve known for years that resentments don’t
hurt the person we resent, but that they do hurt and even sometimes kill
us. I’d been asking myself, Am I willing
to try to give up a bit of this hatred?
I wondered whether I could try to love my president as Jesus or Dr. King
would. (220) Lamott attends church
where the passage about loving your enemies is the focus of the sermon. Driving
home, I tried to hold on to what I’d heard that day: that loving your enemies
was nonnegotiable. It meant trying to
respect them, it meant identifying with their humanity and weaknesses. It didn’t mean unconditional acceptance of
their crazy behavior. They were still
accountable for the atrocities they’d perpetrated, as you were accountable for
yours. But you worked at doing better,
at loving them, for the profoundest spiritual reason: You were trying not to
make things worse. Day 1 went pretty
well. All things considered…. I have to admit it, though: Day 2 was a bit
of a disappointment. (225, 226)
Desmond
Tutu is an Anglican Bishop in South Africa and worked long and hard against
apartheid when it was the law of the land there. Following the end of apartheid, Tutu was
deeply involved in the Truth and Reconciliation Commissions and in other
reconciliation work. The Dutch Reformed
Church in South Africa had provided the theological rationale for the racial
segregation of apartheid, and after the changes in South Africa, the church
issued a confession acknowledging their responsibility for apartheid policies
and the suffering they produced.
Archbishop Tutu accepted the confession, and was criticized by some for
doing so. He responded. I have
been with men like Walter Sisulu and others who have been in jail for
twenty-five, twenty-seven years for having the audacity to say they are
human. They come out of that experience
and they have an incredible capacity to love.
They have no bitterness, no longing for revenge, but a deep commitment
to renew South Africa. I am humbled as I
stand in front of such people; and so, dear friends, I think I am convicted by
the Holy Spirit of God and by the gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ in
offering forgiveness. (God is Not
a Christian, 31)
Theologian
and author Frederick Buechner reflected on what it might mean to love one’s
enemies, and thought that perhaps it begins with seeing our enemies
clearly. You see the lines in their faces and the way they walk when they’re
tired. You see who their husbands and
wives are maybe. You see where they’re
vulnerable. You see where they’re
scared. Seeing what is hateful about
them, you may catch a glimpse also of where the hatefulness comes from. Seeing the hurt they cause you, you may also
see the hurt they cause themselves.
You’re light years away from loving them, to be sure, but at least you
see how they are human even as you are human, and that is at least a step in
the right direction. It’s possible that
you may even get to where you can pray for them a little, if only that God
forgive them because you yourself can’t, but any prayer for them at all is a
major breakthrough. (Whistling in the Dark, 47)
Love. Crazy love.
Love even for enemies. Loving as
God loves. Be perfect, be mature, as God
is perfect. Crazy.
And
isn’t it the height of craziness to think that this is possible among mere
mortals like us? Is Jesus a little crazy
even to ask this of us?
Perhaps,
but then God does love us with a crazy love.
See, if perfect love is described here in these words of Jesus, then
this is also God’s love for us, for the world.
God loves us with a love that goes the extra mile. God loves us with a love that gives itself
away. One way to understand the story of
Jesus is to see it as God taking off some of the garments of “being God” and
coming to share life with us. God loves
us with a love that persists even when we push God away.
When
we know this crazy love of God for us deep in our hearts, deep in our minds,
deep in our souls, deep in our bones, then maybe we, too can love a little more
perfectly, maturely.
Crazy. Amen.